Aug 30, 2019    |    Blog , Client Advice , Escort , Escorting , Punting Advice , Resources

This is the third and final part in a three-part series of blog posts about why women are currently less likely than men to hire a male prostitute. If you haven’t already, take a look at part two, which looks at some of the historical contexts to this question.  In this third part, we look a little more closely at….

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Aug 09, 2019    |    Blog , Client Advice , Resources , Sex Worker Stories

The author – Harley Brixton – is a male escort for women and couples. He is currently based in Christchurch, New Zealand. Preface: Terminology In this post, I use the common words “man” and “woman” as terms of convenience. I do not intend to exclude queer or gender-diverse folk; my intention is simply to aim this article primarily towards cis-het….

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Apr 03, 2019    |    Blog , Resources , Tutorials

Safe, Sexy & Satisfying Spanking The Mistress Joysin Way There are many different styles of spanking, but I am going to solely focus on the way that I feel appeals to the widest audience. Spanking with Mistress Joysin is fun, sexy and playful with no marks or hard pain to worry about and it’s a great lead-up to sex or….

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Dec 06, 2018    |    Blog , Resources , Tutorials

Before a client gets to read your profile description; before they even lay eyes on the services you offer and even before they’ve read your bust size, you have an opportunity to give them a wow first impression! They have chosen to click on your profile based on your main image! So, amongst a sea of other images how do….

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Dec 03, 2018    |    Blog , Resources , Tutorials

A well-written services section means you’re working smarter not harder and avoiding endless “what do you offer” texts. Being able to give the client what they want (even if they don’t know it yet) and draw them into booking you is the goal! How is your business unique? What do you offer? You don’t have to offer things you don’t….

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Dec 02, 2018    |    Blog , Resources , Tutorials

The first step in improving your sex worker advertising is looking at your descriptions or ‘about me’ blurb. How do you write about yourself in a way that’s guaranteed to attract client attention? Below are my 6 hints and tips on writing your advertising description   Is Your Description Too Cliché?   When I first went independent one of the first….

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Sep 01, 2018    |    Blog , Resources

Condoms!!! I think you’re really gorgeous. I think you’re really cute. But you’re not coming anywhere near me. Without a franger on your flesh flute!   Condom use has been depicted as far back as 2000 years ago in the cave paintings at Combarelles in France. Some suggest that there are even depictions of prophylactic use in Egypt. A reusable (yes….

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Jul 16, 2018    |    Blog , Escort , Escorting , Interview , News , Resources , Sex Worker Stories

What are the polls saying? Your feedback is important and informative and we love to hear it! Every so often we run a new poll on NZ Pleasures, these can be for fun or more pointed to a particular issue. The polls are located on the sidebar of the Blog page on NZ Pleasures. Follow this link to be taken….

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Jun 02, 2018    |    Blog , Escorting , Resources , Sex Worker Stories

The History of International Whores Day.   As a whore myself, I believe it’s important to remember the history behind why we are celebrating International Whores Day, to commemorate the women before us, who fought for their rights to work as prostitutes and for the women who are still fighting today, to be treated like normal human beings. San Francisco….

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May 20, 2018    |    Escorting , Resources , Sex Worker Stories

The Hidden Aspects You’re an amazingly resourceful and self-driven being who has chosen the life of the private companion for the freedoms it allows you. Answering your own phones, scheduling appointments, juggling your accounts and being an all-around sole trading ninja! But there are days when you crave human interaction; ironic for someone who’s vocation involves the most intimate of….

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